|  Abortion  or  Contraception, Which  Do  We  Fight ?
 
		
			
				Even the 
				Supreme Court in USA has recognized 
				the link between artificial contraception and the “need” for 
				legalized abortion.
 My friend stated,  “How can we fight the battle against 
				artificial contraception until we win the battle against 
				abortion ?   Getting people to see that artificial contraception 
				is wrong is like climbing Mt. Everest.  While getting them to 
				accept that abortion is wrong is like climbing Mt. McKinley.  
				Until we can climb Mt. McKinley it does not make any sense to 
				try to climb Mt. Everest.”   This line of thinking has led many to believe that we should 
				not bother trying to actively promote the moral teaching against 
				artificial contraception until we have won the battle against 
				abortion.  This thinking is dangerously wrong for several 
				reasons.   First: getting people to accept that abortion is  “bad”  is 
				not the same thing as getting them to refrain from getting one 
				in a  “desperate”  situation.   Second: we will  *not*  win the battle against abortion until we
also win the battle against artificial contraception.  They are 
	inextricably linked because the use of artificial contraception invariable 
	leads to more abortions. Third: we are obligated to promote the  *fullness*  of the good
news at all times.  The moral teachings that God has given to us through
Natural Law is part of that good news.  They are laws, or directions,
given to us by our Heavenly Father in order to protect us from harm. For more on this subject click on  
				my other web page on Truth.
 
 It is true that it is easier to see that something about abortion is 
	wrong.  Even those politicians who champion the legal  “rights”  
	of a woman to have an abortion see abortion as undesirable.  They even 
	attempt to “reduce” the number of abortions.  Their approach
to  “fighting”  abortion is to reduce the number of unwanted pregnancies
by promoting various birth control methods  (1)  and 
				by preaching the so called  “safe sex.”  However, 
				these practices inevitable fail and unwanted pregnancies do 
				result and their  “need” for abortion is made 
				manifest.  Even though they  “oppose”  abortion they lack 
				the moral courage to oppose it even when it involves the sacrifice 
	of letting the baby live, be born, and the consequences of that. 
 CNS News reports:   Writing in this week's issue of the British Medical 
					Even the United States Supreme Court has ruled that 
				access to abortion was necessary as a backup to failed 
				contraception.  In the case Planned Parenthood vs. Casey, 
				1992, the court said, “In several critical respects, abortion is 
				of the same character as the decision to use contraception.  For 
				two decades of economic and social development [i.e. since the 
				1973 decision which legalized abortion in Roe vs. Wade],  people 
				have organized intimate relationships and made choices that 
				define themselves and their places in society, in reliance on 
				the availability of abortion in the event that contraception 
				should fail.”Journal (BMJ), Dr. Trevor Stammers of London's
 St. George's Hospital Medical School noted that
 “up to 80 percent of unintended pregnancies
 (in Britain) result from contraceptive failure. ... We
 have been thumping the tub of contraception
 education for years and the problem is getting
 worse.”
 Abstinence education needed.
 Joanna Thompson, director of the pregnancy crisis
 department at charity CARE, agreed with
 Stammers' assessment and said that recent U.K.
 government research into teen pregnancy shows
 that abstinence should be a fundamental part of
 sex education programs.
 [ CNSNews.com, January 08, 2002, Mike Wendling, London Bureau Chief ]
 
 The relationship between abortion and contraceptives is becoming
ever more increasingly clear.  Many contraceptives, such as the Pill,
actually cause abortions.    See  Links  below.   Artificial contraception is dangerous, not just because it is always 
evil, but also because it seduces a person into a dangerous way of thinking.  
The contraceptive mentality severs the connection between sexual intercourse 
and procreation.  It separates Love from Life in the marital act.  
				(2)   It leads people into thinking 
				that they can satiate their own selfish sexual desires without 
				planning for the possibility of a new life coming into 
				existence.  Most people using artificial contraception are 
				not seriously considering, planning ahead and preparing to 
				accept the serious life changing results that would come with 
				the birth of a new child.  They are inclined to ignore the 
				minute possibility of getting pregnant.  And in some cases 
				they are deluded into thinking that they can have premarital 
				relations or even adulterous relationships without  
				“getting caught”  or having  “to pay the price.” However, contraceptives do fail.  And in real life situations it 
	happens more often than people think.See Are 
	Condoms Foolproof, or for Fools?
 While abstinence is foolproof, condoms are not.  And unwanted pregnancies do happen 
	when people use them. A contraceptive
culture that trains people not to control their passions with the help of
God’s grace, but rather to give in to their desires of the moment, will always 
produce people who during certain times will find it just to inconvenient 
to get or to use the contraceptive due to the immense desire of the moment. 
       
       And what is going to happen when these unwanted pregnancies do happen 
?  What will [ and does]  happen when a young teenage girl gets 
pregnant and the prospect of having a baby at this time in her life could 
result in one of many different possible forms of suffering ?  Will she
be strong enough to face and accept the  *life changing*  decision
to bring this baby to full term ?   Will she be strong enough to
hold fast to her pro-life beliefs and to reject the easy lie that her child
is just a glob of tissue ?  Will she be strong enough even if that includes
in her being alienated from her parents ? Will she be strong enough even
if she has to drop out of school to have the baby ?  Even if she has
to give up the many prospects for marriage who might not now propose to her
?   Even if she has to give up the scholarship that she might have
earned to her favorite college, etc. ?   Or how 
		about the young unmarried woman to whom giving birth to her baby would 
		result in her having to postpone or even give up her ambition to finish 
		college, will the “somewhat pro-lifer” be strong enough to hold fast to 
		her values ?  What if she had to give up on capitalizing on what perhaps 
might be the once in a life time opportunity that would enhance her career 
?   Or how about the father ?  Is he going to be responsible enough 
to encourage his partner to complete her pregnancy by accepting all the responsibilities
that come with raising a child to adulthood ?   And how about the pregnancy that results from an adulterous fling
?  Will that couple have the strength to let their indiscretion to be
made known to the public by bringing their child to full term ?   The possible scenarios are endless, but the point is that saying
no to abortion and bringing to full term this unwanted pregnancy involves 
a much greater degree of suffering, a much greater cross than in living a
chaste life and accepting Humane Vitae, i.e. natural family planning.  
Will people who have practiced violating God’s law, i.e. by rejecting natural 
family planning and who have to some degree shut off some of the avenues of
God’s grace, all of sudden become super saints who can take on this bigger 
cross ?   The very real scenarios above vividly point to the inextricable
connection between contraception and abortion.  Even the pro-abortionists
recognize the link between contraception and abortion.  Dr. Malcom Potts,
the former medical director of the International Planned Parenthood Federation 
stated that  “as people turn to contraception, there will be a rise, not a 
				fall in the abortion rate.” In fact in each country which 
has made contraceptive easily available there has been a marked increase in
the demand for abortion.  And abortion has become legal in all of those
countries.   That there is a link between contraception and promiscuity was also 
admitted by two doctors who were credited with developing the birth control 
pill.   Dr. Robert Kirstner of Harvard Medical School conceded that  
				“For years I thought that the pill would not lead to 
				promiscuity, but I’ve changed my mind.”   Also, Dr Min-Chueh 
				Chang has recognized that the pill has made teenagers “more 
				permissive.” Sure, there are many like the politicians described above that recognize 
that abortion is an ugly thing, but how many have the moral courage to accept
the crosses described above.  When an unwanted pregnancy comes about,
especially when it was assumed that it would never come about, it forces
upon the parents some very difficult choices.  These choices which have
		certain immediacy in being addressed were often never even previously considered
in a serious manner, since it had been assumed that their contraceptive lifestyle
would have precluded such heavy sacrifices.  It can be extremely hard
for these parents not to suppose and pretend that the lies, so prevalent
in our culture, are true:  that is, that it is just a blob of tissue. 
This is true even for those who had previously rejected these lies. 
The contraceptive lifestyle ends up coercing parents to reject their previously
held pro-life standards to make exceptions for this unexpected pregnancy
that they now feel trapped into terminating.   Preaching the fullness of the good news greatly aids prospective
mothers and fathers into being pro-life.   Psalm 119: 42   “… for my hope is in thy ordinances… 49 
				Remember thy word to thy servant, in which thou hast made me 
				hope.  This is my comfort in my affliction that thy promise 
				gives me life.   Godless men utterly deride me, but I do not 
				turn away from thy law.   When I think of thy ordinances from of 
				old, I take comfort, O Lord… 105 Thy word is a lamp to my feet 
				and a light to my path.”
 Failing to preach it makes them vulnerable.   Hosea 4:6  “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge 
				...  And since you have forgotten the law of your God, I also 
				will forget your children.”
 Proverbs 19:2
 “Without knowledge even zeal is not good.”
 Matthew 15:14
 “If a blind person leads a blind person, both 
				will fall into a pit.”
 Many married woman, who find themselves in unstable marital 
				relationships, also choose to get abortions.   And the 
				use of artificial contraceptives is at least a partial rejection 
				of God's grace and that contributes to the instability of those 
				marriages, which in turn leads to more pressure to justify or 
				rationalize the legitimacy of  abortion, or in some cases 
				to have an abortion but with  “regrets.”  See Links below for post-abortion
syndrome. 
 Bible : Douay-Rheims Version 
 Book of Tobias (Tobit) Chapter 6: 16-22
		16 Then the angel Raphael said to him: Hear me, and
I will shew thee who they are, over whom the devil can prevail.
 17 For they who in such manner receive matrimony, as to shut out 
God from themselves, and from their mind, and to give themselves to their 
lust, as the horse and mule, which have not understanding, over them the devil
hath power.
 18 But thou when thou shalt take her, go into the chamber, and
for three days keep thyself continent from her, and give thyself to nothing 
else but to prayers with her.  ...
 22 And when the third night is past, thou shalt take the virgin 
with the fear of the Lord, moved rather for love of children than for lust, 
that in the seed of Abraham thou mayst obtain a blessing in children.
 Tobias   8:4-5,  9-10 
		4 Then Tobias exhorted the virgin, and said to her: Sara, arise, 
and let us pray to God to day, and to morrow, and the next day: because for
these three nights we are joined to God: and when the third night is over,
we will be in our own wedlock.
 5 For we are the children of saints, and we must not be joined
together like heathens that know not God.   ...
 9 And now, Lord, thou knowest, that not for fleshly lust do
I take my sister* to wife, but only for the love of posterity, in which thy
name may be blessed for ever and ever. 10 Sara also said: Have mercy on us, O Lord, have mercy on us,
and let us grow old both together in health.
 [*The reference to sister in this passage refers to a distant 
		relative.]
 
 In conclusion, the approval of artificial 
		contraceptives, or even silence about how evil they are, will weaken 
		individuals resolve to remain chaste in the eyes of God.  The idea that 
		sexual activity can be separated from childbearing will increase peoples 
		temptation to engage in sexual relationships where giving birth to 
		children is  “totally unacceptable and out of the question.”     Contraceptives do fail even when used 
		 “correctly.”   When people establish and accept unchaste relationships 
		with the idea that pregnancy can be avoided by the use of contraceptives 
		they will have established a pattern of giving into their passions 
		instead of controlling them.  At that point it is hard to imagine them 
		having the resolve to control their passions when the contraceptive is 
		not readily available or convenient.  Therefore, the promotion of 
		contraceptives or even our acquiescence in tolerating them will lead to 
		more unwanted pregnancies not fewer. (3) As a 
		consequence, this will necessarily entail that there will be more 
		pressure on women to have an abortions. Once a woman has had an abortion the psychological 
		trauma that she is likely to have experienced will make it nearly 
		impossible for her deal with the matter and enter into a logical 
		discussion about it for many years to come.   See Post Abortion syndrome 
		link below.  Therefore, a complete campaign against abortion must 
		include the battle against all the sins of unchaste behavior, and 
		especially against artificial contraception.   Looking back at the analogy of climbing Mt. McKinley or Mt. Everest 
we can see that saying no to abortion in  *all*  circumstances is
much harder than conforming our sexual life style to the norms that God has
given to us in celibacy and natural family planning.  If a person does
not train himself to take the higher moral ground when it involves smaller
sacrifices how will he have the strength to do the right thing when greater
sacrifices are called for.   Artificial contraception and abortion
are not two isolated issues.  Rather, they are both fruits of the same
tree.  It is not a choice of fighting one or the other, but rather a
choice of effectively fighting them both or neither.   Rather than just stating that artificial contraception is intrinsically 
	evil, we need to explain why it is so and how Catholics have legitimate 
	resources in spacing their children by Natural Family Planning when the 
	condition warrants it.  See 
	
		
			
			Natural  Family  Planning 
		
			
				
					
						
							
								
									
										"Father Paul Marx ... affirmed the 
										Church’s point in his autobiography 
										based on his broad experience in 
										traveling the world: 
											Having traveled and worked in 
											91 countries, I find no country 
											where contraception has not led to 
											abortion, to increasing fornication 
											among the young, to divorce, and to 
											all those other evils we see today 
											that make up the international sex 
											mess. And it is quite a mess, isn’t it? 
										The Gallup poll should serve as a wake 
										up call. If we are serious about 
										strengthening the family, promoting the 
										well-being of children, reversing the 
										growing number of broken marriages in 
										our nation, ending abortion, upholding 
										the dignity of the aged and ill, and 
										promoting purity and chastity, then 
										let’s be honest about where the moral 
										breakdown begins."  
										Contraception: the gateway to moral 
										decay
 Because we ignore the issue of artificial contraception the predictions of "Blessed" Pope Paul VI in Humanae 
	Vitae  have come true and they have wrecked many marriages and many 
	lives.
   
   END NOTES:   1.   However, many forms of birth control such as the
Pill are abortifacients, i.e. they actually do cause abortions.  See CCL Article
 2.  Legitimate natural family planning is always open to the
possibility of new life.  And by focusing on the natural fertility cycle
of the woman this method nurtures a healthy respect for this union of Life
and Love in this act.  It is in the procreative act that humans partake 
in a role that unites them with the Divine.  The two most profound words
that describe God are Life [or existence - I AM ] and Love.   God
designed the marital act so that it naturally encompasses both of these qualities,
Life and Love. “Therefore, what God has joined together, no human being must 
				separate.”
 Matthew 19:6  [Cf. 1 John 4:8 and  Exodus 3:14]
 
 
 3. 
	
	
	Father 
Frank Pavone  states, 
				“People who are valued because they are ‘wanted’ are in a 
				position such that they are expected to fulfill the desires (or 
				plans or expectations or agendas) of another.  In distinction to 
				this, when a person is ‘welcomed’ that means that he or she is 
				accepted for his or her inherent value, just as they are, with 
				no strings attached. Being ‘welcomed’ is much healthier than 
				being ‘wanted.’ ” 
 
 
 LINKS   
	1.
	We cannot separate the realities of our lives from the love of Godby Bishop Robert Vasa
   2.
	
	Contraception: Why Not? ( FREE - Transcript of talk by Janet Smith)
 CD- $5   ... 
	
	MP3 - $0.95
 
	  Father Frank Pavone of Priests for Life:   3.
		Home 
page 
		Couple to Couple League4. Articles 
on Abortion, Contraception, Natural Family Planning, Humanae Vitae 
 Abortion and Contraception: Fruits of the Same Tree:
 “ … They are linked by a common mentality, which is that I 
		may stifle the power of sex to produce a new life. Pope John Paul II 
		wrote in his encyclical The Gospel of Life, " It is frequently 
		asserted that contraception, if made safe and available to all, is the 
		most effective remedy against abortion. The Catholic Church is then 
		accused of actually promoting abortion, because she obstinately 
		continues to teach the moral unlawfulness of contraception. When looked 
		at carefully, this objection is clearly unfounded. It may be that many 
		people use contraception with a view to excluding the subsequent 
		temptation of abortion. But the negative values inherent in the 
		"contraceptive mentality"—which is very different from responsible 
		parenthood, lived in respect for the full truth of the conjugal act—are 
		such that they in fact strengthen this temptation when an unwanted life 
		is conceived. Indeed, the pro- abortion culture is especially strong 
		precisely where the Church's teaching on contraception is rejected" (n. 
		13).”
    
				 5. 
		Post 
Abortion Syndrome In his mercy God is reaching out with His forgiveness to women who have had
abortions.  However, they usually have a tremendously difficult time
accepting the reality of what happened and forgiving themselves enough to
believe, to trust, to hope, that God can heal them and their child.  
[ We might kill the body, but God has made the soul, the person, to live with
Him forever.]
 
   6. 
		A Doctor Explains
How the Pill and Other Contraceptives Work
 
		7.
		The Pill:
		
		How Does it
work? Is it Safe?
 8. 
		
		The Pill Kills Women   
			10.
			Love 
			Matters - Great web site encouraging chastity before 
			marriage.  Great testimonies from celebrities. Geared toward 
			youth. 
	11. One More Soul - Articles: 
	
	
	What a Woman Should Know about Birth Control 
	
	Why Contraception Matters 
	
	What does the Bible say about contraception? 
	 
	
	Why Is Contraception Immoral? 
 12.
	American Life League 
- Life Issues   and  
	
	Birth ControlThis site has several great pages including their Birth Control page which 
	links to this article by Janet Smith, Ph.D.
 Contraception:
 It facilitates the kind of relationships and even the kind of attitudes and
moral character that are likely to lead to abortion. The contraceptive mentality
treats sexual intercourse as though it had little natural connection with
babies; it thinks of babies as an  “accident” 
			of intercourse, as an unwelcome
intrusion into a sexual relationship, as a burden.
 
 
 13.
	Birth  
Control  Pills  Cause  Abortion  * Simple: The Dirty Little Secrets About The Birth Control Pill
 by Dr. John C. Willke, M.D.
 
 14.
	Birth Control Pill 
Causes Abortions  ** Well  DocumentedPro-Life America, Celebs expose abortion! Celebrities, Speakers, TV,
 
 
 15. 
	The  Pill  And  Early  Abortion
 by John F. Kippley
 It is a fact that even some pro-lifers find difficult to face: the pill causes
almost as many abortions as are done surgically each year in this country!
 16.
	See 
	Video - How the Pill Causes Abortions
 Good graphics on how the birth control pill works.
   
	17. 
	Conference : Contraception Is Not the AnswerHow contraception has opened the door to several of society’s problems.
 
	18. 
	
	Contraception Leads to AbortionsThe Facts:
 
 19.
Condoms Encourage Promiscuity which Leads to More Infections: Namibian Bishop
     
		
		20.
		When Does Pregnancy Begin ?
 
 22.  
Human Life InternationalOctober 11, 2011 (HLIWorldWatch.org) 
- The fatal danger of relentlessly pushing contraceptives on Uganda and other 
African countries was laid bare recently in an alarming new report showing that 
the most popular contraceptive in Eastern and Southern Africa may actually 
double the risk of contracting HIV. After experiencing success in combating 
HIV/AIDS in Uganda through an anti-contraception initiative, it’s not surprising 
to hear that contraceptives are part of, and not a solution to, the problem.  
...
 [A]t the beginning of the new millennium, several 
influences began to cripple the ABC program [ABC: “Abstain before marriage".] 
Foreign non-governmental organizations (NGOs) began to aggressively undermine 
the program simply because they could not allow it to succeed.  In fact, the 
program has actually been too successful for the population controllers’ liking, 
and represents a real threat to their dogma of “Condoms first, condoms last, 
condoms always.”   
	23.
Family  Values  Versus  Safe  SexA Reflection by His Eminence
 Alfonso 
	Cardinal Lopez Trujillo
 ... Condoms change the beautiful act of love into a 
	selfish search for pleasure – while rejecting responsibility. * Condoms do 
	not guarantee protection against HIV/AIDS. * Condoms may even be one of the 
	main reasons for the spread of HIV/AIDS. Apart from the possibility of 
	condoms being faulty or wrongly used they contribute to the breaking down of 
	self-control and mutual respect.” ...  [T]he fact that the “safe sex” campaigns have led not 
	to an increase in prudence, but to an increase in sexual promiscuity and 
	condom use.  In fact, there are studies showing that HIV/AIDS cases increase 
	as the number of condoms distributed also increases.(58) ...    (56) … “Good intentions won’t protect you. About 15 
	percent of couples who rely on condoms to avoid pregnancy will still get 
	pregnant within the first year of use. And even if you did manage to use 
	them consistently and correctly, 2-4 percent of condoms leak, break or slip 
	off. And you’re not just at risk for pregnancy.”  (58) … summarizing data taken from the Harvard School 
	of Public Health   
24. 
Man hired hitman to kill girlfriend for refusing abortion: police ... Cases of violence against pregnant women by their 
husbands and boyfriends are sadly common. Statistically, the leading cause of 
death for pregnant women is murder.
 Mark Crutcher, the president of
Life Dynamics, who 
has collected a large amount of data about instances of violence against 
pregnant women, said that legal abortion only paves the way for such violence.
 
 Some men, he said, operate under the tacit assumption that if their partners 
become pregnant with an unwanted child, then they have the “safety net” of 
abortion. But, he said, “What do they do when the woman they've impregnated 
won’t jump into the net?"
   
25.
Child 
Predators By Mark Crutcher Exposing The Partnership Between Planned Parenthood,The National Abortion Federation And Men Who
 Sexually Abuse Underage Girls
 For several months Life Dynamics has been conducting an 
investigation into the issue of teen pregnancy. What we have found can only be 
described as sickening. Underage girls, some as young as 10 years old, are being 
sexually exploited by adult men in numbers that are unprecedented in American 
history. According to the most reliable studies, among girls 15 
and younger who become pregnant, between 60 and 80 percent of them are 
impregnated by adult men. … By almost any standard, our country is experiencing an 
epidemic of child sexual abuse.6 In this report you will see that the driving 
force behind this tragedy is the fact that men who prey on underage girls have 
powerful national organizations that are willing to harbor them. Our 
investigation has uncovered irrefutable evidence that both Planned Parenthood 
and the National Abortion Federation - often operating on taxpayer dollars - 
knowingly conceal these crimes while aiding and abetting the sexual predators 
who commit them. …   
	26. 
	The  Facts  Of  Life  &  Marriageby W. Bradford Wilcox
 Social Science & the Vindication of Christian Moral 
	Teaching  In Humanae Vitae, Pope Paul VI warned that the 
	widespread use of contraception would lead to “conjugal infidelity and the 
	general lowering of morality”; he also warned that man would lose respect 
	for woman and “no longer [care] for her physical and psychological 
	equilibrium”; rather, man would treat woman as a “mere instrument of selfish 
	enjoyment, and no longer as his respected and beloved companion.” Why? By 
	breaking the natural and divinely ordained connection between sex and 
	procreation, women and especially men would focus on the hedonistic 
	possibilities of sex and cease to see sex as something that was 
	intrinsically linked to new life and to the sacrament of marriage. ...  Albert Mohler, president of the Southern Baptist 
	Seminary … wrote: Thirty years of sad experience demonstrate that Humanae 
	Vitae [correctly] sounded the alarm, warning of a contraceptive mentality 
	that would set loose immeasurable evil …”   
The science of attraction: How the pill is changing who women want
   
	27. 
	
	Contraception and Abortion: The Underlying LinkBy Reverend Walter J. Schu, L.C.
   28.  Sherif Girgis writes : 
	“Now there’s a difference between thwarting a good and avoiding it. Say 
	you have to keep a secret from a friend. You could do that by lying to him, 
	or by avoiding him on a day when he might pry. In the first case, you thwart community 
	by choosing what would build it up (a conversation) and then preventing it 
	from doing so. In the second, you merely avoid the whole chance to build it 
	up—even if the avoiding takes planning and effort. And avoiding a 
	chance to achieve some good, on account of the costs of doing so, can’t be 
	wrong in itself. After all, it’s inevitable. We’re forced to do that every 
	time we face a hard choice. Likewise, there’s nothing wrong with the goal of avoiding pregnancy for 
	good reasons ..."A Defense of the Christian Teaching Against Contraception
   29. Contraception: Why Not? JANET E SMITHFee MP3,  
Text,  Free
Study Guide, 
Discussion Questions  – 
Testimonials, 
Suggestions for Classroom Use
 
30. 
Humanae Vitae: A Challenge to Loveby Janet E. Smith, PhD
 31  Trent Horn Refutes Claim 
NFP is Same as Contraception ???,with  Wedding Invitation analogy.
   
 31.  Because we ignore the issue of artificial contraception the predictions of "Blessed" Pope Paul VI in Humanae 
	Vitae  have come true and they have wrecked many marriages and many 
	lives.
 
 
	
	
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